Posted by Susan J on November 18, 2003, at 8:34:34
In reply to Re: Tips on dealing with a passive agressive person?? » Susan J, posted by Searchlight on November 17, 2003, at 17:04:39
Hi!
>As for a co-worker, I usually just ignored it, sometimes blantantly brushing off really unfavorable comments (but only when it got really bad).
<<Hmmm. I really reamed her once a few weeks ago, and she left me alone...but it's come back with a vengeance and I ignored her all yesterday. And the more I ignored her, the more she tried to needle me. I know I need to be consistent, but I'm just not sure which way's better. I'd rather ignore. Don't personally like confrontation too much...>>As I have seen your posts before I know you are very intelligent and thoughtful and will probably handle the co-worker a lot better than I would.
<<Thank you. I appreciate it. But this really is a weak part of my character....maybe that's why she likes picking on me so much. :-)Thanks again,
Susan
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