Posted by JimD on November 21, 2003, at 0:36:31
In reply to Re: I'm in need of some advice » Ayla, posted by justyourlaugh on November 20, 2003, at 22:29:34
My advice, after having been in a similar situation, is to really think about whether your reasons for staying with him are driven by love or fear of loneliness. My ex was very similar: He was verbally abusive to the point where I was very hurt by comments he would make, but not to the point where *I* considered it to be too much.
Bottom line: You neither need nor deserve such treatment. If he can not get his act together and learn to treat you in a respectful manner, turn around and never look back. It is a slippery slope, and if you allow it to continue, it will get worse.
Be strong. I know how difficult it is to leave a long-term lover. Look deep into yourself for strength...I think you will be surprised at what you find.
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