Posted by zenhussy on January 5, 2004, at 10:10:21
In reply to Arrrghh! Ex Emailed me...., posted by kara lynne on January 5, 2004, at 1:29:10
KL,
My ex last year spent a few months sending e-mails similar to the ones you are now receiving. I returned them unopened. Since the e-mail program I am using does not have a block feature for individual addresses I instead created a filter to file all my ex's incoming mail into a folder that I dumped each week. Talk about a fitting image--me dumping that person's crap into the trash each week. In a way that was part of the healing. To finally see this person as they truly were and let go of the dream I had of what could be. It wasn't and isn't and I'm so much better off because of it!! I lived with mine for six long years. Five years longer than I needed to but that begins another story....
Problem of ignoring solved. Problem of healing broken heart? Took longer. Hang tough.
zh
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thread:296579
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