Posted by Jai Narayan on February 29, 2004, at 21:49:39
In reply to Musing about fear -- ?? for Dr Bob, too??, posted by Racer on February 28, 2004, at 22:20:12
> I've been musing about fear recently. From mild anxiety through outright paralyzing terror.
*All my life fear was my first feeling. I would mostly fight but when it looked like I might loose the fight I would flee.
Since I have done EMDR. I have a choice. Fear is not my first feeling anymore. I have the complete compliment of feelings at my disposal.
I am more complicated now and will go for peace as the choice. I would like to negotiate now....lets talk about it and look at all the possibilities....
It just doesn't look like I need to fight anymore I am more open to looking at all the possibilities. I am more mellow.
Is peace too much to work toward? must we fight? Or even run away?I come to this site to communicate with really interesting and wonderful people...not cuz I need them but I like them. I like this place.It's safe and fair and loving....let's face it we are all struggling in one way or another....I like the honesty I get here.
I like the rules that were set up by Dr. Bob.
I come here because it's interesting. always so interesting.
poster:Jai Narayan
thread:318665
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