Posted by TexasChic on June 24, 2004, at 9:01:52
In reply to Re: This time the paranoia was justified » TexasChic, posted by partlycloudy on June 24, 2004, at 8:39:19
Yes, I do feel better about my boss's opinion of me now. Its because of the prima dona attitude and how my boss incourages it that made me think otherwise. But one thing I did find out from our conversation is that my boss is very sly, which I'm not too cool with. According to her, some of the things that I thought were preferential treatment were actually my bosses way of 'testing' my friend. I really don't like that and would rather someone ask me something outright than try to trick me into giving an answer. But at least I know that about her now.
I've come to a realization lately that I pick the same kind of person for a friend every time! All of my friends have been the prima dona type. I guess subcontiously I see that as confidence and that is what draws me to them. But I always end up butting heads with that kind of person. Actually, I let them get away with treating me less than stellar, and finally I get mad and can't take it anymore. My therapist and I have talked about this and how I need to find friends more like me; easygoing and maybe even a little shy. So I guess I'll have to work on that.
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