Posted by moime on October 8, 2004, at 18:19:22
In reply to Re: Bad BreakUp and Not Coping Well » moime, posted by partlycloudy on October 8, 2004, at 18:09:23
> how about be really glad you aren't with him anymore? doesn't sound like it was too healthy.
> memories will fade but don't be ashamed of feeling. it's what us humans do best.
> I am glad that I am not suffering under him anymore, keeping my mouth shut for fear of saying something that would make him break up with me. (God, listen to that!) But I can't help but wonder if I had TRIED a little harder to understand his (mental wounds) from his childhood and adult life, perhaps I would have helped him. I too suffered similar things as he, and I did think that one day he would notice, heal, and begin to love me. (Can't believe I actually wrote that all out - psycho, isn't it!)
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