Posted by AuntieMel on March 15, 2005, at 14:23:20
In reply to Re: antigua (poss trigger), posted by sunny10 on March 15, 2005, at 12:32:11
What's left for you to think? That you got the wrong books, that's what.
We can all find symptoms in ourselves of *any* disease on the face of the earth.
It's good to use coping skills - to a point. When you are using them to deny a part of yourself .... well it aint gonna get you anywhere for long. They are for situations, not as a replacement for your own personality.
Your problematic relationships are your own fault??? How on earth could "everyone" or anyone know that? Are they with you 24 hours a day?
Number 1 is taking care of yourself. Let that start by telling yourself that you aren't faulty and "they" are full of poo.Did you get the book I recommended? It won't tell you "what is wrong with you" or "how to help yourself" or any of that other stuff that sells books. What you'll get is a short daily reading that will give you something to ponder for the day.
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