Posted by Jazzed on June 20, 2005, at 17:14:47
In reply to Re: I don't want to do anything :(, posted by Angela2 on June 20, 2005, at 16:17:35
> Today I went to work, came home, made some phone calls, cleaned my car, unloaded the dishwasher, and now I'm sitting down to a nice cup of psychobabble. I am still in love with this guy and I feel like everything I do, I do it wrong. Like, why would he want to be with me? He hasn't brought anything up about it. Although he did pay for lunch on friday. But he hasn't said that he misses me, or asks me if I'm still attracted to him or anything. So I guess he just wants to be friends. I wish I could tell him how I feel, but I don't want to get hurt.
OMGosh! You did more today than I've done in a week probably! LOLAs far as your guy goes. Maybe he's just taking it slow, you know how laid back some guys are. They just don't always think the same way we do, and don't worry as much about love relationships generally. Obviously you're worth being with! Try to use some positive images and affirmations to boost yourself up. I'd wait it out, if he's good to you, and you're both happy, just wait and see.
I hate to bring up Joyce Brother's in case anyone hates her, but b4 I started dating my husband, I read her book Everything you should know about Men, or something like that. It was one of the best books I ever read on men, and I'm sure had a lot to do with how well things went while my husband and I were dating. Might be worth a trip to the library?
Jazzy
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