Posted by Tamar on October 15, 2005, at 19:01:28
In reply to The reason I am asking! tell me what you think!, posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 17:53:46
Hey Happyflower,
It’s always nice to be noticed, isn't it?!
And I don’t think a little smiling and eye contact and conversation can do any harm.
But… you don’t know he’s single… and you do know you’re not currently single…
Maybe he’s flirting with you because you’re an attractive woman and he likes to flirt. It doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to start something. Or maybe he does want to start something… it’s your choice whether you get involved. And you don’t have to flirt back if you don’t want to. But (IMHO) flirting isn’t inherently immoral…
Is there any possibility you want to get back at your husband for his indiscretion? Or are you simply missing the physical side of marriage?
I would say… talk to your T about how you feel about flirting and being noticed at the moment. It’s hard for stuff like that to feel natural in a situation where there are problems between you and your husband. I can imagine that a flirtation might be simultaneously exciting and terrifying right now.
Tamar
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