Posted by TexasChic on February 14, 2006, at 21:16:42
In reply to I do not want to be angry, posted by lynn971 on February 14, 2006, at 20:01:09
> She needs to apologize for speaking to my child that way. You dont speak to someone's child like that. If you have a problem, you talk to the parents.
This is pretty much what I said in my post that went wonky. You have every right to be angry! Its harder to forgive someone who has hurt someone you love rather than yourself. She really should apologize to your daughter. But her actions were so out of line I don't know if I'd really want her to speak to my daughter anymore.I think as long as your daughter knows this type of behavior isn't acceptable to you, and she should let you know anytime an adult mistreats or threatens her, she should be secure knowing her mom will not let anything happen to her. And once you feel she is okay, you may be able to let it go. Holding on to the bitterness does nothing to hurt the ones responsible, it just eats away at you.
Those people definitely have issues.
-T
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