Posted by Jay on June 4, 2006, at 23:57:53
In reply to Re: I am working on a song for Pbabble » Jay, posted by Dinah on June 3, 2006, at 22:40:43
> Well, surely it was some consolation to know that you two felt the same way about each other? Doesn't sound like the most mannerly or charming of potential dates.
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> Jay, my (much prettier) cousin once asked me how I found such nice boys to date. And I paused, nonplussed. Because it honestly never occured to me to date anyone who wasn't nice.
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> There are lots of nice women out there Jay. As you're going about your normal life, I'll bet there are plenty of them. I know that you've said your classmates are a bit younger than you are, but are they all? The only people I ever dated were friends first and then dates, and it always seemed to work for me.
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> I haven't a lot of dating experience, of course. I only dated a handful of boys in my life and married someone I met in high school. >So what I say may not be all that helpful.Dinah...thank you. Your words are VERY helpful. I too must start using that quality of a "good" person, to find a friend with that, as the sole reason for socializing with women. I think I've tried to do that, but it seems the women I have choosen to meet (which are only a few by the way) make up their mind right as soon as they meet me. I think that will be one of my first questions now. Something like.."Do you prefer a friendship that then develops into a relationship?"
Geeeezz..it's like learning to ride a bike over and over again, eh?..heh. Thanks for your very kind help.
Jay :-)
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