Posted by Dr. Bob on October 1, 2006, at 12:56:15
In reply to Re: Lou's request for clarificatio to Michael83's, posted by Michael83 on October 1, 2006, at 0:06:07
> I'm trying to reply to your post as best I can without it looking like I'm blaming anyone, as Bob would like. I don't want to break the rules, so I'll describe it the best I can.
Thanks for being flexible and trying.
> There are just too many holes in a belief system like that.
But the above could still lead others to feel accused or put down. Maybe try talking about yourself rather than others, for example, instead of the above, something like:
> I just find it hard to adopt a belief system like that.
Do you see the difference?
Bob
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