Posted by LJRen on November 9, 2006, at 11:15:28
In reply to Shall I sign up at matchdotcom?, posted by corafree on November 9, 2006, at 2:12:53
CF,
You're the one who posted on Relationships a few days ago about ending it w/ a BAD guy.... wondering why you always end up in that type of relationship, right? Honey, please do yourself a favor, I know you're feeling lonely and perhaps a little desperate but take some time to figure yourself out. If you don't stop and heal and learn your dysfuntional relationship patterns then you'll never have a chance to break those patterns and get out of this cycle of getting into those types of relationships that end up making you feel miserable.
I have a sneaking suspicion that you're a lot like me in that you feel something is missing w/n you when someone is not there w/ you so you go out in search of someone else to fill that hole. Unfortunately, to my dismay, that only person who can fill an individual's personal emptiness is that person. How that's done, I haven't figured it out yet, but it's what I keep hearing. Being alone absolutely sucks, I know. But sometimes it's what you gotta do for your own benefit.
TC,
Ren
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