Posted by karen_kay on May 4, 2007, at 6:23:58
In reply to Memorials, posted by Quintal on May 3, 2007, at 18:03:59
usually for my father it's somethign like this...
someone will say on his birthday soemthing like this:'do you know what today...'
'yes'
soemone will call someone else and begin to say same thing
someone else will call someone else and say same thing.
the chain begins.
we jsut call ro remind eachother with 'do you know what today is....'
that's about it. sometimes we say 'we shoudl get out to his grave'
we do have one sister who always gets out there, plants flowers. bad as it sounds. babs (my sister) and i have both forgotten where hsi gravesite is. (though i know it's not more than 10 miles from where i now live. black hole memory runs in family.)
lots of small talk, lots of inaction. don't feel bad.
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