Posted by llurpsienoodle on February 2, 2008, at 17:57:08
In reply to Learning who your friends are and are not, posted by Happyflower on February 1, 2008, at 19:04:05
Hi Happyf,
I know that your mom was a very very sick woman. That cannot be disputed.The other half of your post is about friendship though. What it means to have friends and recognize qualities that we admire in our friends. I have two hard questions, and maybe it's not fair for me to post them, but I want to get to know you better. Feel free to ignore them if they are irrelevant or you don't want to answer...
1) You said that when you were my age (29) you would have believed that there is at least a shred of good in everybody -- what changed since then?
2) Do you think that your relationship with your mom forms a model for forming all types of friendships, some types of friendships or none at all?
I figured out that I have a friend in the area. Now I'm gonna go hang out with her for coffee.
(((((((((happyflower))))))))))
thanks for talking about hard stuff.
-Ll
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