Posted by Kath on April 18, 2008, at 22:27:38
In reply to Re: I've been too sick too long, posted by Fivefires on April 17, 2008, at 23:48:33
> > Wish I was close enough to hug you in person; to hold you, actually, for a long time!>
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> I know you don't mean what another might mean by this, but it's sort of funny. Is it really you Kath? Just kidding, ... I think.***********LOL - oops!! NOPE I'm not being weird. I just mean it'd be nice to be nurturing to you. Yes, it really is me!! :-))
> > Maybe the person sort of needed a break, but didn't know how to 'do it' nicely.
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> Oh, you mean, I needed a break, my person, but I treated myself badly during the break. I think that's what you mean. I was afraid I was mean to someone else. But you're right, just because I need a break doesn't mean I should be mean to myself. I need to repeat that to myself a few times here.******No, I actually meant the person who you counted on & who sort of abandoned you. But you know, what you're saying about has a point....no way should you be mean to yourself or put yourself down for feeling badly etc.
hugs, Kath
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