Posted by Katgirl on May 2, 2010, at 10:35:04 [reposted on May 4, 2010, at 0:55:53 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Relationships, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on May 1, 2010, at 23:52:50
I'm so glad you have found a 12 step program. Really, STAY with that. You will find good friends there who will accept you just the way you are. I know it is hard to be alone, but right now what you need is friends. I personally have not dated since my divorce three years ago because I am just working on getting better. I know until I can love and accept myself the way I am, I won't be any good in a relationship anyway, and would end up with someone who would just bring me more stress.
Please do stay with the groups and keep reaching out for support. If you do have addiction issues, nothing in your life will improve until you deal with the addiction. You are on the right path, just hold on! :)
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