Posted by gardenergirl on December 27, 2007, at 9:10:30
In reply to Re: I'm being pressured into taking another class, posted by Deneb on December 27, 2007, at 1:02:01
Hi Deneb,
What I hear is that you're nervous about this. I wouldn't worry about "shouldn't complain" or comparing yourself to others. You feel what you feel, and that's not something for others to judge. If it is comforting to hear that others have gotten through it, then by all means, use that. But if it leaves you feeling inadequate, and it sounds like that was part of your family's message to you, then let go what causes hurt. It's not yours, it's their issue anyway, right?It is scary to try to balance multiple demands when you've felt fragile for awhile. You've been doing good from what you've said and how you've appeared here. That's great! That's the important part.
You go, girl! That is, you go where and how you want to go for yourself.
Take care, sweetie.
gg
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