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Posted by sunnydays on January 18, 2007, at 20:11:48
I think I like my T too much. I'm actually not afraid he's mad at me for it for once, I just was thinking my life would be so much easier if I didn't like him so so much. But maybe it would be harder too. I just wish there was a way I could stop thinking about him all the time. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? It's just this feeling that he is such an amazing wonderful person and I can never ever be as special to him as he is to me. I just wish I could hug him and he could hold me so much.
sunnydays
Posted by LadyBug on January 18, 2007, at 22:24:57
In reply to can you like your T too much?, posted by sunnydays on January 18, 2007, at 20:11:48
I've wondered the same thing for many years. I love my T and can't imagine my life not seeing her. I'm not quite as obsessed as I used to be, but I still think about her so much. She enters my mind all the time. I think it's part of what happens when we need to heal. She used to tell me that my love for her was ok, that it wouldn't hurt her. But I know too that it has scared her at times, and me too. I put her on a pedestal and she says that is not good because she isn't perfect.
I think the sooner you accept the fact that you like your T so much, the better able you will be to accept it. Don't fight it, just give into it and tell yourself it's alright. Because it is. They become pretty important to us. It's ok.
LadyBug
Posted by inimitable on January 19, 2007, at 5:56:30
In reply to Re: can you like your T too much? » sunnydays, posted by LadyBug on January 18, 2007, at 22:24:57
the main thing i can relate to is the not feeling as special to him as he does to me. cause he is soooo important to me, if i didn't have him, well, i think i might be dead now. the thing that hurts is that i know his life wouldn't feel empty if i weren't in it, but mine would if he weren't, because he's the only person that really cares about me and knows what i've been going through. i have passed the stage where i think about him everyday, i used to have quite the crush on him. but now, even though i know how important he is to me, i don't think about him as much as i used to. ohhh man, did i hate hearing, back when i was thinking about him everyday, that "i'll get over it" or that i'll think about him less, with time. because at the time, it was heartbreaking to think about him and it felt like it would never end, that i would always think about him....but it has ended, a while ago. and i feel a lot better now that that is over!
so good luck :)
*inimitable
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