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Posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 11, 2007, at 22:21:46
I am missing my old T now, I just miss talking to him right now, I told my new T that. He said it was normal, concidering how long we worked together. I think he is avoiding the gym too because of me, so I am not seeing him either. I miss him.
My new T did some visualization of my safe place. It felt weird. He asked why I didn't close my eyes, I said I didn't know I was suppose to. He said I didn't ,he was just surprised I could do it with my eyes open. He had his eyes closed, well I thought he did anyways. Weird. Oh, well , so I am weird, I could have told him that. He is getting me ready for some intense stuff to come.
He told me to make a sh*t list of 10 things. I asked him 10 (hundred or thousand)? Yeah, I am a smart *ss. so what? what ya gonna make of it?
I feel weird , everytime I go in his office and I think it was the 4th session so far this week, his office gets smaller and smaller. I like his velvet soft brown wing back chair. I can just sink into it and my feet reach the floor. lol I like the natural lighting from the bay windows, it feels safe.
I ask him do you think you know enough about me to do this EMDR. He said he did, he felt comfortable with it. I don't know it doesn't seem like he knows me very well. I am feeling a little bit like resisting doing it for some reason. Not sure if I want to dive in deep. My toes are in water, and the sharks are swiming by my feet nibbling on them. Don't know if I can, what if I totally lose myself? What if I don't ever come back from the horrible memories? I see him every Monday, not much time to think about it. uggh~!
Posted by muffled on September 12, 2007, at 13:25:39
In reply to Therapy was more fun with Dr. sexylegs than geezer, posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 11, 2007, at 22:21:46
Awww HF. You are brave, but I hope you can feel 'safe' with newT before you get down to business....
Hope this missing of the oldT passes as quick as it can for you.
M
Posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 12, 2007, at 16:04:57
In reply to Re: Therapy was more fun with Dr. sexylegs than geezer » Happyflower 1 :-), posted by muffled on September 12, 2007, at 13:25:39
Thanks Muffy for responding, I guess you are the only one who loves me. boo hoo. Sorry I am being needy and pathetic at the moment, yeah I need hugs, hell ya!
I like my new T, but not sure if I am ready yet with him. I feel safe with him, but after the last T, I don't know if I can trust T's. They are messed up sometimes. I think I need to let out some F's, it has been a long time, don't ya think?Thanks again,
Happyflower
Posted by TherapyGirl on September 12, 2007, at 17:44:57
In reply to Therapy was more fun with Dr. sexylegs than geezer, posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 11, 2007, at 22:21:46
It may have been more fun with SL (Sexy Legs), HappyFlower, but I like the way OG (Old Geezer) approaches your therapy. :-)
Posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 12, 2007, at 20:59:46
In reply to Re: Therapy was more fun with Dr. sexylegs than geezer » Happyflower 1 :-), posted by TherapyGirl on September 12, 2007, at 17:44:57
Thanks Therapygirl, LOL yeah, I know. lol At least I know I won't fall in love with him, and if I do , then I really need my head examined! lol
Posted by pegasus on September 12, 2007, at 21:04:30
In reply to Therapy was more fun with Dr. sexylegs than geezer, posted by Happyflower 1 :-) on September 11, 2007, at 22:21:46
Oh, HF, it's hard isn't it? I'm not at all surprised that you think of your ex-T, and question your new T, even while you're recognizing that your new T seems pretty good overall.
I loved your image of the chair. I can totally picture you in the therapy room, learning to feel at home there.
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