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Posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 0:31:29
I am incredibly attracted to my female therapist. I am a woman, too, and I am more attracted to her than I've ever been to a man. And the scary thing is - I'm not scared about it. If I imagine having sexual feelings for a female friend of coworker, it would freak me out so badly. But with my therapist, I fantasize about her all the time, and feel like it's natural, and feel like I'm entitled to take pleasure in the fantasies.....like they're not dangerous. Are they dangerous???
Sometimes- and please don't judge, I know this is weird - I imagine being a fly on the wall and watching her day and night. I want to watch her sleep with her husband. I want to learn from her, I want to learn how she pleases a man, and also how she wants to be pleasured. Is that insane. I want to see her in her everyday life. I want to know what she has for breakfast, what she wears around the house, how she interacts with her husband.
I listen to myself and realize I sound totally obsessed, and I worry that I should be worried, but I crave the fantasies and the pleasure they give me, and I don't want to give that up.
If I were to tell her about these thoughts, would she think I'm a monster??? How uncomfortable would she be talking about this, or hearing it??? I want her to like and admire me, so there's a lot I hide inside, a lot of thoughts I don't dare share. I dont' know what to do.
Posted by I need a hug on March 10, 2008, at 1:36:46
In reply to want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 0:31:29
moonlightsonata,
It's been about 4 or 5 months ago but I remember exchanging posts with you. All of a sudden, you just disappeared. I tried B-mailing you but got no response. I think you were moving or changing jobs at the time and may have been changing therapists, too. Do you remember this? I thought we had formed a pretty strong bond and then you just stopped posting. I've been wondering what happened to you all this time. If you want, B-mail me and I'll fill you in. We were in similar situations. HUGS
Posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 6:19:23
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by I need a hug on March 10, 2008, at 1:36:46
I don't know what B mailing is. Can you just post your thing here on this forum? Either that or tell me how to B mail.
Posted by sassyfrancesca on March 10, 2008, at 9:08:05
In reply to want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 0:31:29
Of course she wouldn't think you are a "monster"----it is normal to have deep, powerful feelings for people who care about you, etc., etc...if she is well-trained, she is familiar with those kinds of feelings, and well able to deal with and talk about them. It might help you to talk about your feelings with her, if you feel safe.
On the other hand, I've been in love with my t 5 years, and we have discussed it in depth. We are very open with each other. He knows (LOL) in great detail how much I love him and that I would like to make love with him. I could write a book on what has happened between us.
As a matter of fact I had a dream in which i said I wanted to "worship his......." I don't know how I have been able to hold back; it is killing me.
He is married and said: "If I were not married, I would probably go for it." He makes me crazy; he is in such a struggle.
We are all human, and feel what we feel. Feelings are not right or wrong; they just are....and should be honored and validated.
I would NEVER judge anyone's feelings.
Hugs, Sassy
Posted by I need a hug on March 10, 2008, at 11:09:50
In reply to want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 0:31:29
I was referring to babblemailing. If you go to Pscho-babble Administration, click more information, click general information, click babblemail, then scroll down to update your registration you can turn your babblemail on. Then, I can send you a private message regarding our previous posts which I would be more comfortable with if it's o.k. with you. HUGS
Posted by 10derHeart on March 10, 2008, at 11:34:26
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by I need a hug on March 10, 2008, at 11:09:50
You can get there from the top of this (or any) board, too, through the FAQ link. Scroll down to "What are the options at this site..." But, here are the links:
Posted by Hermitian on March 10, 2008, at 20:40:38
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by sassyfrancesca on March 10, 2008, at 9:08:05
Re "He is married and said: 'If I were not married, I would probably go for it.'"
He said that! His personal life is none of your business. Him making it so makes him an incompetent creep-slob who should be fired.
So fire him and find another guy/woman with an ounce of integrity and more than half a brain.
What a stupid slob. Don't drop another dime on that clown.
Posted by moonlightsonata2 on March 10, 2008, at 20:52:38
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by Hermitian on March 10, 2008, at 20:40:38
It's still me...moonlightsonata...I had to re-register because I couldn't remember my password. Now I'm "moonlightsonata2" and I have babblemail!
Posted by moonlightsonata2 on March 10, 2008, at 20:57:03
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata2 on March 10, 2008, at 20:52:38
Dumb question for you, HUGS.....if you send me a babble mail, how do I open it? What do I click on? I dont' see any links.
Posted by gardenergirl on March 10, 2008, at 23:04:54
In reply to Re: want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata2 on March 10, 2008, at 20:57:03
> Dumb question for you, HUGS.....if you send me a babble mail, how do I open it? What do I click on? I dont' see any links.
It goes to the email address that you used when you registered. If you want to reply to a babblemail you received, don't use your email reply function. Instead, click on the link for replies within the body of the babblemail. That will take you to the babblemail form here.
Good luck,
gg
Posted by I need a hug on March 11, 2008, at 4:37:10
In reply to Opening babblemails » moonlightsonata2, posted by gardenergirl on March 10, 2008, at 23:04:54
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