Posted by glenn on June 29, 1999, at 15:23:52
In reply to men, posted by skimble on June 29, 1999, at 14:07:25
> We dated for two months when he asked me to marry him. We planned on moving in together as his lease was soon to be up. Together we searched for three weekends for a place to live. After finding the perfect place, we signed a lease and made preparations. Two days before, he tells me he doesn't want us to live together.
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> What is wrong with this man?
hes either suffering from a fear of true commitment or he likes the chase and when he has his prey hes no longer interested, if you are still interested then you might do well to back off a bit yourself though im sure that will be difficult as you obviously think a lot to want to move in with him
there are a couple of good books such as the dance away lover by daniel goldstein or why men are the way they are by warren farrel
at least they show that its not your doing which it doesnt sound like it is
all the best
glenn
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