Posted by Kath on August 12, 2000, at 14:10:12
In reply to Re: Kath - Not your fault, posted by Billb on August 12, 2000, at 8:28:05
Thanks all of you. You have no idea how this support has (and continues to) helped me. All the "it's NOT your fault"s are truly helping me. It's almost as if a little part of my mind is saying "Hey, if all these people from all over the world are saying that it MUST be true".
Another thing that I didn't even realize until this morning is this: I was feeling "I'm making such a BIG DEAL about this; it wasn't THAT big a deal; I'm spinning it all out of proportion" etc. etc. From your replies I realize that other people think it's a big deal, so - !!maybe it is!!
I think I'm really "getting" the it's not my fault part. I am now working on the "hey - it WAS a big deal & of COURSE it was upsetting!!!"
Thanks very much for your support!
Hugs to you all (nice healthy non-yucky hugs!!!!!)
Kath :-)
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