Posted by Dr. Bob on August 15, 2000, at 18:31:47
In reply to Re: Mr. B » Billb, posted by Kath on August 14, 2000, at 20:14:27
> > > > MisterB, I hope that you are not condoning this (the abuse). I have read your post sevaral time and cannot tell, however I am a simple person. Your one statement concerened me, "on rare occassions when somebody violates those boundaries, I don't blame myself much but maybe I deal with guilt differently".
> I don't think for a second that MisterB is condoning the abuse, and that statement you quoted didn't bother me at all.
In case you missed it, I'm trying to block him from posting, at least for now. FWIW, I took his statement to mean that he didn't tend to feel guilty when others violated his boundaries. Which was *not* saying that it was OK for them to do that.
Bob
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