Posted by europerep on June 28, 2010, at 13:56:21
In reply to need advice on OCD and a relationship problem, posted by kimbersaur on June 28, 2010, at 4:17:47
hey there..
I am very short in time right now so I just want to add a quick comment. I didn't know about this special form of OCD, and I can imagine that this is quite difficult to deal with. Sometimes it happens to me in public transportation that I think like "hmm, I do not want to know how this bus/tram metro looked like after it was used during the night-hours to bring partygoers home", but I forget it after a second.. anyway, what I wanted so say:> Now, it is 40 days before the wedding and he tells me that one of his best friends can't do the party until 4 days before the wedding [...] And now he refuses to even discuss it with me.
>seriously, this whole thing because of one guy? ok, one of his best friends, but still... can't he go visit him afterwards (favorably at a time where there's another flu crisis so you could be sure he'll be properly disinfected at the airport upon return ;-) just kidding..) to have a few beers, or get drunk? I cannot drink due to meds, and I do feel how much I'd like to have this, I mean, it's what everybody does at this age, but..whatever.. or is the idea behind a "bachelor party" sort of to never get drunk again? I don't know, maybe I'm too much on your side because I'm male, but it is true it's your wedding too..
unfortunately I cannot really give advice on how to solve the problem.. there are some points dinah made that are true though..
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