Posted by Dinah on October 1, 2011, at 0:48:05
In reply to dinah, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on September 30, 2011, at 18:17:47
I also want to mention that I'm really not talking in terms of blame. There's a difference between feeling guilty or shamed and taking responsibility.
Things don't arise in a vacuum. Even the best intentioned parents can inadvertently make poor choices in childrearing. And biology is a fact.
Taking responsibility for our choices is a completely different thing - totally unrelated to blame.
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