Posted by stresser on March 4, 2005, at 15:23:53
In reply to please help with 16 son, posted by starrc68 on March 4, 2005, at 12:19:11
I agree with C Jane, and I do know it's very difficult to stand back and watch your self-destruct. Some of the time it takes hitting rock bottom for most people before they learn what it takes to make their life better. You need to worry about yourself, and your other children also. I have seen it with one of my friends children, and there is a light at the end of the tunnel, maybe you could get some professional help? Are you seeking counceling? I really suggest seeing a psychologist, for you and your son. He may not be crazy about it, but it would help you in handling him and dealing with your feelings. Some medications out there will take away the desire to drink, smoke, etc. (anti-depressants, topamax takes away the urge to drink) I really feel for you, I know it's hard dealing with teenagers that are strong willed. My daughter sees a psychologist and it has helped her quite a bit, at first she didn't like going and argued about it....but now she goes and I can see a difference in attitude. Her dad and I go every now and then to get an update. Let me know how things are going for you. -L
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