Posted by AuntieMel on March 9, 2005, at 9:40:53
In reply to Child personality styles, posted by Toph on March 8, 2005, at 15:31:50
There's also a saying that still waters run deep.
Is it possible that the boyfriend and his family have a comfortable familiarity for her? And that when she's with them she doesn't feel pulled in two directions?
I mean, there's no need to defend her mom if no one says anything about her.
Is there any way you can spend some alone time with her? I wouldn't try forcing a conversation, but the best way to get someone beyond superficial is to do it first yourself. Gently, of course, just a little bit about yourself and your hopes for her - that kind of stuff.
Is she away at college? Can you send 'just thinking of you' cards now and then & care packages for finals?
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