Posted by Lindenblüte on November 16, 2006, at 18:05:54
In reply to What does it mean when someone ignores you?, posted by Deneb on November 15, 2006, at 23:04:29
> I'm not handling it very well. I'm also not very good at deciphering the subtleties of social interactions.
you're not alone!
> How should I deal with it? Why would someone ignore me? I worry that I did something bad.
Ask yourself what you did. If you don't know, ask someone else.
> I'm pretty sure this someone is indeed ignoring me. I asked this person directly and didn't receive an answer.did you ask face to face? if so, how did they react? with anger? embarassment?
If you did not ask face to face, how do you know that they heard your message?
> I don't know what to do. :-(me neither.
> I feel sad about this.((((((Deneb)))))))
> I don't think this person is a bad person. I really look up to this person and I thought this person was my friend. I'm really confused.Maybe you asked for advice or help, and the person is overwhelmed right now, and is unable to give you what you deserve? your friend might feel guilty and is avoiding you because she knows that she hasn't been there for you. You trigger his or her guilt, even though you did nothing wrong? All pure speculation. That's usually why I avoid people. From guilt or shame.
> Let's make sure this thread is civil.Let's make sure it's warm and fuzzy ((((Deneb)))) and ((((((Deneb's Friends))))))
-see? I just gave me a hug! me and a LOT of other people. one of the largest group hugs in recorded history!
little blossom on the lime tree
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