Posted by Deneb on November 16, 2006, at 21:49:48
In reply to Re: What does it mean when someone ignores you? » Deneb, posted by Lindenblüte on November 16, 2006, at 18:05:54
Thanks Lindenblüte
(((((((((Lindenblüte)))))))))))
> > How should I deal with it? Why would someone ignore me? I worry that I did something bad.
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> Ask yourself what you did. If you don't know, ask someone else.I'm not sure whether what I think I did was an issue. This person did reply to me after that incident, so I'm not sure. I'm so confused. :-(
> did you ask face to face? if so, how did they react? with anger? embarassment?
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> If you did not ask face to face, how do you know that they heard your message?I didn't ask face to face. I can't be totally sure this person heard my message, but I have tried to engage in conversation several times and didn't receive a reply.
> Maybe you asked for advice or help, and the person is overwhelmed right now, and is unable to give you what you deserve? your friend might feel guilty and is avoiding you because she knows that she hasn't been there for you. You trigger his or her guilt, even though you did nothing wrong? All pure speculation. That's usually why I avoid people. From guilt or shame.
I don't think that's it, but it's good to know there are other reasons for ignoring me than being angry.
> Let's make sure it's warm and fuzzy ((((Deneb)))) and ((((((Deneb's Friends))))))
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> -see? I just gave me a hug! me and a LOT of other people. one of the largest group hugs in recorded history!:-) Thanks for the hug.
Thanks for being there for me.Deneb*
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