Posted by kerria on December 17, 2006, at 0:40:32
In reply to Suicide - coping with the loss, posted by NZgirl on December 4, 2005, at 20:19:10
I'm sorry that you're having so much pain now. i lost my f. and cousin through suicide. It's always hard i think because it changes us but there are joyful days too. i have DID and am aaaable to separate the pain away - live in other parts that don't hurt so much but there's no control over it- i can't switch when i want to or need to and missing a family member we love is so hard. In a way it never goes away but we have other parts of our life too and other family members that we love and love us that make things better.
Praying that you will have joy to replace the sadness- remembering the times you shared that were good and that were fun helps me.
i'm sorry that it's so painful now. Maybe after the holidays things will get better.Take care,
kerria
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