Posted by tinydancer on March 10, 2004, at 2:06:47
In reply to Re: the couch.. » Fallen4myT, posted by Pfinstegg on March 9, 2004, at 18:11:48
YES! I agree. I go in to every appointment working it for all I've got and hell, he probably knows it. I don't care. I want to look my best, sexiest, prettiest self, yes I do. Nothing wrong with that.
By the ways your outfit descriptions are too good. I love this! I want more descriptions....haha
> Good outfit! To get a bit more serious for a moment, don't you think we all have these feelings for a good reason? We just want to be our best, sexiest and prettiest selves- in life, and in with the Ts, who get so important and stand in for everyone else. I don't think we have to verbalize everything, either. Just having the feelings is wonderful (and helpful) even if we don't say a word. They know we are having them- and of course, we know it. It gives me a lot more self-confidence, bringing it all in. It all gets accepted in such a natural way, without any big deal being made of it, and, in the process, I get more self-accepting, too. It's as important as all the complex problems I have had with my parents, for example, but no more so. It actually makes getting up, making eye contact and walking out easier than when I try to hide it- or anything else. Well, not every time...but mostly.
>
> I don't know if I can manage a garter belt (well,I have to be honest:I CAN'T!), but I'll be all eyes if you do! It's so much fun to fantasize and be light-hearted about THERAPY CLOTHING. Where else could we ever talk to our hearts' content about such a topic?
poster:tinydancer
thread:321334
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040308/msgs/322751.html