Posted by CareBear04 on March 10, 2004, at 12:41:03
In reply to Re: the couch.., posted by antigua on March 9, 2004, at 23:55:39
How does it make you feel when your T comments on your clothes? (I know it sounds like a ? you'd hear in therapy.) I used to think that Ts weren't supposed to notice or at least comment on anything physical, including wardrobe choices. Then I had a woman T who would occasionally make nice remarks about a sweater or a necklace or something, and I thought it was nice. Since none of my previous Ts had ever gone near commenting on my appearance, I wondered whether it was weird or not.
> My wardrobe isn't anywhere near as exciting. My T is a woman and the best days are when I walk in and she is wearing an outfit similar to mine --same color combo, for example. My T is a great dresser and must spend a ton of money on clothes because I can barely remember seeing her in anything more than twice, and I've been seeing her forever!!
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> I dress for how I feel and she picks up on it right away and comments.
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> You guys have way more fun, but thanks for including me.
> antigua
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