Posted by tinydancer on March 10, 2004, at 9:24:35
In reply to Re: Question for KindGirl, posted by KindGirl on March 10, 2004, at 9:13:45
Oh my god it sounds so wonderful! I can see how it wouldn't work for everyone but I get the sense that it works for you. I am not a believer in rules applying to everyone and I feel like she has a lot of love and kindness to give you. That's amazing. If my T said that, I would...I would.....Sorry I couldn't finish the sentence, I just melted into a puddle of water on the floor.
I would be shy too. I think what I like most is having my T very close when I'm talking. It makes me feel that he is engaged and sort of "with me". I would be even happier up in his lap with my arms wrapped around his neck. But I believe in him and his approach, which in my case involves caution with physical contact. I think he is doing that for my sake, and for my fragile soul and the hurt and misuse it has suffered. Knowing that he cares that deeply is meaningful for me. But I still want a hug someday!
It doesn't sound weird at all. It sounds like you have found a T who can help you. And that's wonderful, not weird or bad in any way.
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