Posted by pegasus on March 12, 2004, at 13:43:53
In reply to Re: Do you and your t. say l love you ever? » tinydancer, posted by Fallen4myT on March 12, 2004, at 12:51:30
Oh, I hope you are not a huge dope, because then I'm a huge dope too! I do exactly the same thing.
It was only when my T told me he was moving that I managed, eventually, to choke out a statement about caring about him. And then he reciprocated (using my own words, which was annoying - like he only wanted to exactly match me and not tell me anything unique), but he never said anything like that before the turmoil of trying to terminate prematurely.
I think different people have different experiences and thresholds for that type of thing, and if you can't manage to say that you care/love your T, he probably knows a lot of how you feel anyway. We say it in a lot of ways besides with words, I think.
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