Posted by Fallen4myT on March 12, 2004, at 13:57:21
In reply to Re: Do you and your t. say l love you ever?, posted by pegasus on March 12, 2004, at 13:43:53
LOL. O.K maybe I am a petite dope but dope none the less. I hate when people parrot back to me what I have said. So I THINK I UNDERSTAND what you are saying on how he said the same words back. And I know well kind of know my T MUST know how I feel by some of our side talk on how I feel but I erode within by holding in what I wish I could and want to say, THAT'S WHERE I am a dope :) That song by Avril THESE THINGS I'LL NEVER SAY, that really fits me and I wish I could be brave like some of the other posters...In many ways it makes me sad that.."these things I'll never say"
HUGS
> Oh, I hope you are not a huge dope, because then I'm a huge dope too! I do exactly the same thing.
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> It was only when my T told me he was moving that I managed, eventually, to choke out a statement about caring about him. And then he reciprocated (using my own words, which was annoying - like he only wanted to exactly match me and not tell me anything unique), but he never said anything like that before the turmoil of trying to terminate prematurely.
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> I think different people have different experiences and thresholds for that type of thing, and if you can't manage to say that you care/love your T, he probably knows a lot of how you feel anyway. We say it in a lot of ways besides with words, I think.
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> - p
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