Posted by KindGirl on May 15, 2004, at 23:56:04
In reply to Re: Miss my t. so much I want to curl up in a ball, posted by DaisyM on May 15, 2004, at 17:50:07
My t. gave me a tiny stuffed bear. Not sure what that symbolizes.
I think you all bring up good points and I appreciate your sharing.
I don't think therapy is "my life" but I know it can be....it is a very strange dynamic with me because my t. really encourages me to concentrate more on my recovery than I do.
I am famous for being extremely active, extremely busy, have many acquaintances, and this is the first time in my life I really have nothing planned from day to day.
FYI...when I had a major confrontation with my main abuser (my mom) all of these "friends" I met with on Friday night basically vanished. They told me "the past is the past"..."let it go"..."just forgive her"....all major b.s.
These people are incapable of any conversation deeper than what they bought at the grocery store that day. Yep, these were the people I thought were important!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BTW, my t. asked me if there was anything I could think of she could give me or do for me to help while she was gone. I said I thought it would be cool if she gave me something of hers to hold onto until she gets back. It could be a pencil for all I cared. She came up with the little bear. It is very cute, but I am thinking I need to just keep him in my car. It is getting too hard to stay connected while she is so far away from me.
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