Posted by gardenergirl on May 18, 2004, at 23:12:01
In reply to about this therapist...., posted by karen_kay on May 18, 2004, at 14:59:11
KK,
It sounds like a really tough situation given your history with Bubba. Does he comment to you about the other group members outside of group, or during? If it is outside of group, that seems like he still had boundary issues.I do think it is great that you are not upset that he is seeing someone individually. I know that initially, you were really upset at this loss. Sounds like progress to me. Perhaps he brought up the homeless people in order to try to engage you more, because he feels that special bond slipping away as you become more independent?
Whatever is going on...you are a very special, caring person, KK. You bring such joy and love to all you encounter. It's tough to think about serious, complex problems like homelessness, but do not worry that you are not contributing to making the world a better place. Remember the rippling pond? You're still having an effect.
gg
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