Posted by crushedout on September 1, 2004, at 13:15:34
In reply to Re: Dumb question » crushedout, posted by Rigby on September 1, 2004, at 10:09:52
I hate the idea that therapy made us "open" to guys, even if that's true. It smacks too much of "reparative therapy." Ick.I honestly don't think it's true for me, anyway. I think the right guy just came along, maybe. Which also makes my skin crawl (you don't know how many men have told me I was a lesbian because I just hadn't "met the right man yet." I should have said, "Yeah, and you're straight for the same reason").
But that's not what makes me queasy. I just don't like the idea of my T thinking I'm "healthier" now because I'm with a man and it's somehow thanks to her. If anything, the opposite is true.
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