Posted by pinkeye on September 15, 2004, at 19:26:39
In reply to Re: letter to my T re: our affair/ discretion, posted by Jadah on September 15, 2004, at 18:41:13
Hi Jadah,
We all knew it was coming to this, didn't we. I am so sorry you are hurting so much now.
But ass much as you feel angry towards this man, try to remember that you also went into the relationship fully knowing the consequences? And you did get the pleasure too. Maybe acknowleding that you did get lot out of him would ease your anger. Finally he has left you, but atleast you got a good 5 years. Maybe you can try to be happy about that and take it with you and go and find someone new now? Don't think you wasted 5 years in your life. You have evolved, grown, had some fun with him albeit some difficulties. So can you try looking at that perspective? It might help ease the anger and the betrayal that you feel.
Pinkeye
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