Posted by Dinah on October 31, 2004, at 21:17:50
In reply to No more T timing, posted by alexandra_k on October 31, 2004, at 20:00:57
Sounds like progress to me. :)
Ok, I should be honest here. It's what I've wanted to do myself. Have two therapists without the other knowing about it. Twice the safety. Because as much as he wants to be, my therapist can't be there for me all of the time. What's wrong with wanting another one as a safety net?
Sigh.
I brought it up with him again the other day. It led to a semi fight. In the end, he agreed to think about it and think about ways to have a backup or ways to make therapy safer to depend on. Then I got scared and left a frightened message on his machine taking it all back because somehow the idea of actually having that other someone was terrifying, although it's what I want.
So I do think it's progress to be honest with your therapist. But if I'm honest with you, I like the setup you've got. :)
poster:Dinah
thread:409785
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