Posted by Shortelise on May 1, 2005, at 17:39:46
In reply to scared about losing T (silly thoughts), posted by frida on May 1, 2005, at 12:24:52
Those feelings are so real! Not silly at all, not weird, or stupid, or unusual, in my opinion.
Just hold on tight, and get through this painful process, and as time passes things evolve leaving you more whole, more of the pie and less of the missing piece.
If abandonment is what's on your mind,could it be that's what you need to be exploring with your T. Ouch, I know. But talking's good!
Here's an idea: nothing you are telling your T is going to drive her away from you. Nothing anyone did and nothing you did is going to make her leave you. Is that an ok idea?
Many warm hugs.
ShortE
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