Posted by shrinking violet on May 2, 2005, at 13:41:49
In reply to Re: .....never known pain like this......(trigger?), posted by happyflower on May 2, 2005, at 11:32:04
>> I am sorry to respond so late to your post. I have been lonely myself and to read about your pain hits my heart.
--(((((((((happyflower))))))) I'm so sorry.....the last thing I would want to do would be to upset someone else. I hope you are all right. Babblemail me anytime you need to.
>>I am scared that I might be getting attached to my T, I don't want to go through all the pain that you seem to be going through.--I don't know what to say except that you should probably discuss this with your T. Talk to him about your budding attachment to him, how he feels about it, what the benefits might be, and have him reassure you that he won't do anything to cause you pain. It's so hard to terminate before the client is ready, which I think is a BIG part of what is going on with me right now too. I could use a good few more years with her, at least (not that it still wouldn't be painful then, but, I think it wouldn't be as life-or-death as it is now), but for me it isn't possible. Talk to your T about this, and ask him anything you need to with hopes that he'll soothe any fears you may have.
>> I don't have much advice but I just wanted to let you know that I care and I will be thinking about you these next 2 weeks especially.
--Thank you, that means more than you know.
Take care of yourself.
<3
SV
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thread:491643
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