Posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 18:35:27
In reply to chuckle. » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on May 23, 2005, at 18:21:15
hmm.. I have had some male friends but so far, I haven't really thought much about anyone if I am not attracted to them in some way. If I am not attracted, it is more of a general liking and nice thougts about them maybe at max once a week rather than this kind of obsession. But I haven't spoken very closely to any male friends either, so maybe that is a reason. I have spoken about lot of things in general, but I haven't revealed too much about me to anyone. In fact none of my male friends (for that matter even women friends) knew that I even had rheumatoid arthritis - even those to whom I supposedly was very close and liked a lot. So they were always kept at a distance.
Maybe that is a reason why I find it puzzling that you could talk about your T so much here and yet not be attracted to him. But I suppose it is possible.
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