Posted by Dinah on December 6, 2005, at 17:05:29
In reply to Re: Didn't chicken out after all, in the end » Dinah, posted by Shortelise on December 6, 2005, at 15:22:45
I really am rather pleased with myself. I had planned to be more confrontational about it, then had decided to chicken out. So the end result of a calm, polite and low key discussion was sort of a compromise between those two extremes, and one that worked out well. I was on my toes the entire time, ready to bail out at any sign of anger or "directness" about my ability to tolerate challenge. But my fears were for naught.
T1 will be proud of me, I think. He did his best to convince me that it wouldn't be as bad as I thought (and since he knows T3, I guess I gave that a bit of weight). And Babble did a lot to encourage me to be honest with her rather than flee. So I was very tentatively honest. :)
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