Posted by daisym on December 9, 2005, at 10:21:53
In reply to Re: Speaking of Grrrrrrrrrr (trigger to Dinah) » fairywings, posted by gardenergirl on December 9, 2005, at 9:56:43
I'm sorry you missed your appointment. I'm glad my therapist is rarely late (once in 2 1/2 yrs) usually it is me! I worry all the time that someone else will show up that needs to see him worse than I do and he will choose them. (Yeah, yeah, I know...)
It sounds like you have a handle on why you bolted and/or didn't ask after 10 minutes. But do you also think that after all this time when we get to the waiting room, we automatically begin to deconstruct our defenses and we do feel more vulnerable, perhaps younger and definitely less assertive. Almost a pavlovian response?
I'd send him another email, with the details, so you can let go of it for the weekend.
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