Posted by muffled on December 9, 2005, at 22:11:48
In reply to Re: CSA and our children **trigger?**, posted by antigua on December 9, 2005, at 19:53:36
I guess you could say there was some 'abuse', or something, and if wants to know more he will ask. At least give the option of not knowing more if he doesn't want to. My Mom was kinda screwed up, but I don't really want to know why. Its enough for me to know she had problems. I wouldn't want the images in my mind. I am very visual. Is your son visual?
I would be very careful about this.
My child inside is screaming NO.
Not sure why.
My opinion only.
Hope all goes well.
My older(IRL) kid (9) is also pragmatic and stoic. Its very hard to know what goes on in his head really. Sometimes that scares me.
Take care,
Muffled
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