Posted by Declan on May 20, 2006, at 17:36:40
In reply to cognitive dissonance, posted by llrrrpp on May 19, 2006, at 15:47:18
Do you know those posters of Nelson Mandela saying something like it is our power we are frightened of? Maybe it is not so much the way you feel about your fellowship as such, but the way you feel in the interaction where you are praised. But why should you want to avoid praise? It could be too much, not enough, ot the wrong sort (from your point of view). What I wonder is if failure is comfortable, why doesn't it feel better?
poster:Declan
thread:645964
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