Posted by Dinah on May 24, 2006, at 15:24:18
It looks like the home I love, the sale isn't going to go through. So now we have to make the decision whether or not to move based solely on merit, and move into a serviceable house rather than one I love if we move.
I find it impossible to put useful input into the decision. Logically, I think it's a good idea. Emotionally I am reacting very badly to the thought of moving on many levels. On the other hand, I'm way more anxious and distressed at home than I am when away.
Do you think it would be useful to ask my therapist if he would be willing to do a joint session with my husband to help us order our thoughts on the topic? Do therapists help you do that? Not to make a decision for us, but to help us find a framework to make the decision ourselves.
My husband would really like to move, for obvious reasons. But he's worried about the effect on me. He thinks I probably need ongoing therapy but he says that I don't like most therapists. All of which my therapist thinks too.
I am so torn about this that it isn't even believable.
poster:Dinah
thread:647910
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