Posted by Dinah on May 27, 2006, at 18:35:41
In reply to Re: Actually not resolved - trigger? » Dinah, posted by fallsfall on May 27, 2006, at 12:49:57
Yes it is. This morning my husband was mailing off a deposit to the school and telling me we should tell our son we've changed our mind and we're moving.
After he saw me taking a day long nap he said no, we'd stay, and that everything would be ok. But then he spent the rest of the day talking about everything he'd do with his time off when he's laid off. So he's insisting we can stay, and at the same time making all these remarks that are guaranteed to make my anxiety shoot up.
I don't know what to do. I know what I want to do.
Earlier, my husband said he'd go see my therapist, and so I called my therapist today and he's game. But now my husband says we don't need to go see him because we're staying here. And he's really looking forward to all that time off. :(
I guess it's no different from my saying that if we have to move we have to move, then spending the day in bed.
We're trying to see who can be most passive aggressive.
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